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Biblical
Twelve Step
Eight
Principles Based on the Beatitudes
Eight Natural Laws
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Behaviors, good or bad, are a result of beliefs, caused
by influences, creating expectations, self-talk, which creates
self-actualization or self fulfilled prophesy. (A seed of its own kind will
always bear fruit after its seed, either unity and resolve or confusion and
eventually destruction). We see, hear, and feel through filters in the mind,
controlled by the heart. There are one of two trees that we choose to eat
from, the Tree of Knowledge which will always bring death or the Tree of
Life.
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If the results of behavior(s) do not meet our needs, we,
the body, or others around us there have been some bad influences, beliefs,
and attitudes.
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Outcomes always take time to measure. Outcomes are a result of the soil
that has either been nurtured or deprived. Outcomes and behaviors can always
be traced back to their origin, leaving them exposed. By inspection of the
fruit produced, we know the origin. Change in spiritual influences will
produce a different behavior which will be noticed immediately.
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Growth defined, is having the ability to learn from the
past and applying things learned to the future, altering those things that
need to be changed. Changes can only come if we truly desire to make a
change. When beliefs are changed as a result from self examination by
seeking God for direction, behavioral patterns will be altered, which will
change expectations, attitudes, and will bring new outcomes and end results.
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Addictive behaviors and behaviors that lead to others
being hurt are the result of internal hurts and deep-seated unmet needs.
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If self worth is dependent on anything external
(including God), outcomes and future events will be distorted, leaving
individuals hurt and unfulfilled. If our power is external, we become
victims of circumstance and can change nothing.
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Inner peace is a result of changed influences and
behaviors which are a result of becoming more focused on God, His will for
us, and our purpose and calling. As new influences (Spirit and people) and
beliefs are created true needs begin to be met.
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The mind will always naturally seek peace and harmony
when presented with two opposing and opposite principles. The mind, body,
and the spirit cannot survive on a long-term basis with opposing or
conflicting ideas or beliefs.
Twelve Steps for Change:
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Take responsibility for outcomes, actions, and re-actions.
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Understand that all battles are spiritual. It is the
flesh that wars
against the Spirit. Admit to ourselves that we are powerless and victims
without Him and as such our lives are unmanageable.
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Only God through Jesus can restore us.
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To make a decision to turn our lives and will over to Him and seek His
will, purpose, and direction. Salvation occurs from turning our lives over
to Him and learning how to trust and obey Him.
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In self-examination take an inventory of where we are at and how we got
there. Identify the self-talk (speech). Watch for the words spoken. Are they
of doubt or fear? Do the words (our speech) bring unity, love, and peace, or
disunity?
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Repent (ask forgiveness of God and those that we have injured or done
wrong) and be determined not to go back to our old way of thinking and our
old lives. Observe the result of the behavior or belief (Self-examination).
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Be ready and willing to have God remove all defects of character and be
willing to put Him first in our lives. If behavior remains re-identify
values and motives. Seek God and identify some alternative beliefs based on
scripture or a new understanding.
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Identify the root influence that creates the belief (s). Identify the
expectations and attitudes. Ask God and count on Him to make changes in us.
Identify new potential behaviors and outcomes.
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Make a list of persons we have harmed and make amend wherever possible.
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Continue in self-examination, take direction, and be willing to admit it,
when we are wrong.
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Daily seek God for His direction and ask that His will be done in your
life. Pray the Lord’s prayer and ask you receive His purpose or receive a
vision and power to carry it out.
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Having walked in His Light and practice His principles, reach out to
others in need and be willing to walk with them.
I am responsible…..
When anyone, anywhere, reaches out for help, I want our hand always to be
there. For that I am responsible.
We are responsible both to God
and each other.
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